How to not be affected by a Narcissist

In all areas of our lives, every now and than we come across theses types of characters. They are very easy to identify! They usually are self-centred, with high regard for themselves, they feel and act as if they are superior. They are highly manipulative, they take advantage of other and they have no regard or appreciation to anyone but themselves. They take all they can get from you and give nothing in return. They act with such self confidence that we feel intimidated and immediately obey without question.

When we are dealing with this type of person within a group, that person is the center of all the attention. Everything that person says and does is never questioned, everyone puts them in a pedestal.

So, now that we identified this type of person and learned how they act, what can we do to take them off the pedestal that we actually put them on in the first place?

1.Self-worth

First of all, change your mindset. Be aware of your value and the value of your opinions and beliefs. Don’t underestimate yourself.

2. Creating your group

You’re not the only one feeling this way. We all are trying to be the best version of ourselves and, just like you, others will step away from that person. You are now creating space for the right people and circumstances to come into your life.

3. Focus

Surround yourself with the right people, keep your positive mindset, focus on your beliefs, your values, how to improve yourself, what makes your heart beat faster, what brings you happiness. Focus on your goals.

You don’t have the ability to control people and circumstances around you, but you have the power to control how others can affect you. Your mind is strong, you are strong, you are able to work with consistency, without outside influences. Keep a positive mind, overcome the obstacles, keep learning, keep growing, get stronger every day.

Keep in mind, you are amazing!

Thank you for meeting me halfway.

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Learn How to Let Go

When experiencing a reality that is just not happening the way that we anticipated, we find it hard to accept and just move on with our lives. Instead, we hold on to all the negative emotions and frustrations around it, and we feel stuck.

We lose perspective. We need to let go of the past in order to start over and have new beginnings.

Once you let go of that numbness, self-pity state, you’ll gain this amazing power of changing your path into a new beautiful direction. So, why do you keep on looking back when the rainbow is just ahead of you?

We want to move on, but sometimes we don’t even know how.

Well, here are some tips to guide you:

1.Stop resisting

This is the first step that you must set into our mind in order to move on. Accept your reality. It is happing, period.

There mustn’t be any emotion attached to your current reality, no negativity, nothing. From this point on it’s a neutral reality.

Don’t resist, accept it.

2. Focus

Now that you acknowledge your current situation and you’re no longer being clouded by all the negativity around it, you can finally look at it and take action!

It’s time to look at this current state as new opportunities, new beginnings. It’s time for you to focus on what you want.

Make a plan. Write down all the steps you want to make to change that area of your life. Stay focused, be resilient, be consistent, you can achieve whatever you want, work for it.

3. Move forward

New perspectives mean new actions, and new actions translate into new results!

You had the courage to get out of your comfort zone! You had the bravery to stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something amazing about your life! You had the wisdom to understand that small steps lead you into a wonderful journey! You were humble enough to understand that we are always learning and re-adjusting! You should be proud of yourself! You’ve got this!

Thank you for meeting me halfway.