When experiencing a reality that is just not happening the way that we anticipated, we find it hard to accept and just move on with our lives. Instead, we hold on to all the negative emotions and frustrations around it, and we feel stuck.
We lose perspective. We need to let go of the past in order to start over and have new beginnings.
Once you let go of that numbness, self-pity state, you’ll gain this amazing power of changing your path into a new beautiful direction. So, why do you keep on looking back when the rainbow is just ahead of you?
We want to move on, but sometimes we don’t even know how.
Well, here are some tips to guide you:
This is the first step that you must set into our mind in order to move on. Accept your reality. It is happing, period.
There mustn’t be any emotion attached to your current reality, no negativity, nothing. From this point on it’s a neutral reality.
Don’t resist, accept it.
Now that you acknowledge your current situation and you’re no longer being clouded by all the negativity around it, you can finally look at it and take action!
It’s time to look at this current state as new opportunities, new beginnings. It’s time for you to focus on what you want.
Make a plan. Write down all the steps you want to make to change that area of your life. Stay focused, be resilient, be consistent, you can achieve whatever you want, work for it.
3. Move forward
New perspectives mean new actions, and new actions translate into new results!
You had the courage to get out of your comfort zone! You had the bravery to stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something amazing about your life! You had the wisdom to understand that small steps lead you into a wonderful journey! You were humble enough to understand that we are always learning and re-adjusting! You should be proud of yourself! You’ve got this!
Thank you for meeting me halfway.